Some people are designated the ‘planner’ friend, they are the ones who host parties, plan days out, considers everyone’s schedule and are almost never the recipients of a surprise. I am one of those people; I plan the family holidays, menu included, I’ve done baby showers, birthdays, and have often spent the most time planning what we will be doing on any vacations. It’s not a burden, I enjoy planning for the most part but there does get to be a point in which a planner frien